| Acknowledgments |
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| A Note of Caution |
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| Part One Living Comfortably in a Nursing Home |
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Let's Begin At The Beginning |
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Why Do You Need This Book? |
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4 | (1) |
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A Super-Short History of American Nursing Homes |
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We Really Don't Want to, But |
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Just What Is a ``Nursing Home'' Anyway? |
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9 | (2) |
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Short Stays vs. Long-Term Care |
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11 | (2) |
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13 | (1) |
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14 | (2) |
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Questions to Ask About the Need for Placement |
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Why May a Nursing Home Not Be the Best Answer? |
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17 | (2) |
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19 | (2) |
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21 | (1) |
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Home Health Care Agencies |
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Assistive or Assisted Living Apartments |
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22 | (2) |
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24 | (1) |
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Board and Care Facilities |
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25 | (1) |
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26 | (1) |
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27 | (1) |
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27 | (1) |
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The Very Reluctant Resident |
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28 | (3) |
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How To Choose A Nursing Home |
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Location, Location, Location |
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31 | (2) |
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33 | (1) |
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34 | (1) |
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Medicare Means Federal Standards |
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35 | (1) |
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Private vs. Public Facilities |
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35 | (1) |
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36 | (2) |
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Appearances Are Not Deceiving |
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38 | (2) |
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40 | (1) |
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41 | (2) |
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43 | (2) |
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45 | (1) |
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46 | (2) |
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48 | (1) |
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49 | (1) |
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Getting Her Money's Worth |
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50 | (2) |
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52 | (1) |
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Comparison Shopping Worksheet |
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53 | (2) |
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Now That She Is A Resident |
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55 | (1) |
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55 | (4) |
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A Note to the Alert Resident |
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Helping the Resident Cope With Depression |
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61 | (4) |
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Familiarity Breeds Contentment |
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65 | (1) |
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66 | (4) |
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Families Can Help with Food Problems |
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70 | (1) |
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71 | (2) |
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73 | (4) |
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Living Things Lend Comfort |
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77 | (1) |
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78 | (2) |
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80 | (2) |
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82 | (3) |
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85 | (1) |
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What Is Next on the Program? |
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86 | (2) |
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88 | (1) |
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89 | (2) |
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91 | (1) |
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92 | (3) |
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95 | (1) |
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96 | (3) |
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99 | (2) |
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101 | (2) |
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103 | (2) |
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105 | (1) |
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106 | (1) |
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107 | (1) |
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108 | (3) |
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111 | (1) |
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112 | (1) |
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113 | (2) |
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Doctors, Specialists, and Dentists |
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115 | (4) |
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119 | (1) |
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120 | (1) |
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121 | (1) |
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122 | (1) |
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123 | (2) |
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125 | (4) |
| Part Two Additional Issues |
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Families Have Feelings And Needs |
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129 | (2) |
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131 | (2) |
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133 | (1) |
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134 | (3) |
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137 | (4) |
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141 | (1) |
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Personality-Caused Problems |
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142 | (1) |
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143 | (2) |
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145 | (2) |
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147 | (3) |
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150 | (3) |
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Who Is in Charge Here Anyway? |
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153 | (2) |
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155 | (1) |
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155 | (1) |
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Maximizing Your Influence |
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156 | (2) |
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158 | (4) |
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Big Brother Is Watching Them |
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Quality Assurance Committee |
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162 | (1) |
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State Department of Health |
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163 | (5) |
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Federal and Other Oversight Agencies |
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168 | (3) |
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171 | (1) |
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172 | (5) |
| Part Three Living the Last Days |
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177 | (4) |
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181 | (1) |
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182 | (1) |
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183 | (2) |
| POSTSCRIPT |
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| GLOSSARY: UNDERSTANDING A NEW LANGUAGE |
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187 | (1) |
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188 | (13) |
| Interesting And Useful Additional Reading |
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201 | (4) |
| Index |
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