Foreword |
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Acknowledgments |
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Introduction |
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PART I: DEALING WITH THE DIAGNOSIS |
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Unwelcome to the World of Breast Cancer |
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What to do in those frantic early days |
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Most don't, but there is more than one way to abandon your wife |
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A practical guide for clueless guys |
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Why it's better to hear than to cheer |
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You know you've got 'em, but should you share or conceal? |
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When-and what-to tell your kids |
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What to do if parents (hers or yours) are causing tension |
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Help Wanted: Appointment Pal |
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Your job at the doctor's office |
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PART II: TREATMENT AND BEYOND |
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A crash course for husbands |
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What to expect in the hospital |
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The impact of a mastectomy |
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As your wife weighs breast replacement options, just shut up and listen |
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Everything you always wanted to know about sex and breast cancer |
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185 | (12) |
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A guide for the bewildered spouse |
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A caregiver's tool kit includes medical reminders, hard candy, and back rubs |
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Unconventional Cancer Care |
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How couples navigate complementary and alternative therapies |
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Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow |
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225 | (13) |
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Helping your wife handle her hair loss |
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Radiation: The Daily Dose |
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Side effects vary, but the need for support is constant |
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Mysteries of Metastatic Disease |
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Living with uncertainty-and with hope |
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Breast cancer survivors-and their mates-face an unfamiliar future |
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Glossary |
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Experts |
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Index |
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